Im Not Sure What To Do About It And Im Not Sure If Hes Just Being Flirty Or Serious, What Would You Do?
ok, this might sound really bad but heres the thing, theres this guy at my college thats got a girlfriend he’s a college tutor and he’s engaged, im happily married and well needless to say me and the tutor kind of like each other but we both know each other is taken. I’m not trying to really flirt with him but he says alot of things to me like come by when im on to get help with your work and stuff like i have faith in you, and your beautiful just the way you are and one day he gave me a strawberry and im not sure what to do because i dont want this to go further because i dont know how to nicely tell him that im married and im not planning on leaving my husband anytime soon so I really need him to turn down the heat. im not sure what to do about it and im not sure if hes just being flirty or serious, what would you do?
February 16th, 2010 at 6:49 pm
You are just as guilty as he is. And maybe you are taking what he is saying to you wrong. Either way when I am with the one I love I show that respect. I don’t have to wear a ring to do it.
February 16th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
Woman get yourself together and act like a respectful dignified wife. How can you be happily marriage when you are obviously hungry for attention and infatuated with some guy at school? And how does he not already know you are married? Don’t you wear a ring or mention your husband at all! Geez!
February 16th, 2010 at 9:25 pm
Get a new tutor. Immediately. You are married. He is engaged. This relationship is getting inappropriate.
February 17th, 2010 at 12:06 am
talk about your husband more
February 17th, 2010 at 1:46 am
ummm….. bring up ur husband more .. and dont flirt bak when he flirts with u ..
February 17th, 2010 at 3:23 am
This is self explanatory…. if you don’t plan on leaving your husband tell the self proclaimed engaged tutor to back the hell off…. tell him you love the man you are with and that he should love the woman he asked to marry him!
There is no reason to be nice too him he is demeaning! And sweetie any little thing is a flirt even if it is a small giggle when he tells you that you are beautiful…
Tell that boy too hit the road and keep his hormones in check!